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elephant in the room

American  
[el-uh-fuhnt in thuh room, room] / ˈɛl ə fənt ɪn ðə ˈrum, ˈrʊm /

idiom

  1. a problem or issue that everyone is aware of but that no one wants to talk about.

    Her dad’s depression has been the elephant in the room at family gatherings.


Etymology

Origin of elephant in the room

First recorded in 1935–40

Example Sentences

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Why do so few people talk about the elephant in the room?

From MarketWatch Jul. 22, 2026

When it comes to sharing his music, especially the more vulnerable tracks, Wolfhard knows his “Stranger Things” fame is the elephant in the room.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 14, 2026

On Monday, the climate-vulnerable Alliance of Small Island States said countries could not keep ignoring "the elephant in the room" and warned that anything short of winding down fossil fuels was "papering over the cracks".

From Barron's Jun. 8, 2026

Perhaps universities will address the elephant in the room: Student cheating is rampant, and it is the fault of the faculty.

From The Wall Street Journal May 25, 2026

I want us to have history, something longer than the small window of time we’re actually sharing, with an even longer future, but the dying elephant in the room crushes me.

From "They Both Die at the End" by Adam Silvera

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